How Can I Make My Divorce Faster and Less Expensive?

Setting Emotions Aside During an Illinois Divorce

It is not uncommon for those going through a divorce to look for ways to complete the process as quickly and inexpensively as possible. The process of ending a marriage is often very difficult, but couples who can keep their emotions in check and work together toward a creative resolution are likely to reach a divorce settlement more quickly and affordably.

A divorce is a life-changing event and, as such, it is often emotionally charged. You may find yourself overwhelmed with feelings of anger, betrayal, grief, and countless other emotions as the relationship as you currently know it comes to an end. While such emotions are a normal and healthy part of the healing process, allowing them to affect your divorce proceedings can have serious consequences. At Mirabella, Kincaid, Frederick & Mirabella, LLC, our attorneys realize the importance of separating facts from feelings, and we are ready to help you focus on moving forward.

Working Together Toward a Common Goal

While you and your spouse may ultimately be headed in opposite directions, during your divorce your objective should be the same: reaching a reasonable, workable divorce settlement as quickly as possible without unnecessary stress or bitterness. To do so, you will need to set your emotions aside while you work together to develop agreements that will meet your needs, as well as those of your spouse and children. You cannot "win" a divorce, but if you allow the situation to spin out of control, you both may feel like you have lost.

Even though you may not agree with your spouse about the reasons your marriage is ending, and you may find it difficult to be civil as you address divorce-related issues, you can benefit by attempting to avoid conflict as much as possible. By focusing on working out the legal, financial, and practical concerns that must be resolved before your case can be completed, you can strive to remain calm and collected and focus on your future rather than the negative emotions you may be experiencing in the present.

In some cases, mediation may be a good option for negotiating agreements with your spouse and resolving your differences. With the help of a neutral mediator, you and your spouse can discuss issues productively, cooperate to make decisions, and reach compromises that you will both be satisfied with. You may also use collaborative law or attorney-assisted negotiations, working together with your respective attorneys to craft a divorce settlement and complete your case quickly and efficiently.

Contact Our Wheaton Divorce Attorneys

At Mirabella, Kincaid, Frederick & Mirabella, LLC, we are committed to providing the guidance you need as you navigate the process of divorce. With considerable experience, our attorneys can offer sound advice and unique solutions to even the most complex divorce-related issues. Whether you plan to use mediation, collaborative law, or other methods to negotiate a settlement, we are prepared to provide the representation you need while ensuring that your rights and interests will be protected.

If you are ready to save time and money on your divorce without compromising your rights, contact our office. Call 630-665-7300 for a confidential consultation today. We are proud to serve individuals and families throughout DuPage County, Kane County, Kendall County, and Will County.